The Saturday following Lydia Mae's Birth my Grandpa passed away. We had to make the hard decision to stay in Utah while everyone else went to the funeral in Cody Wyoming. For this post I would just like to write memories and whatever else comes to mind.
Memories of Grandpa Beardsley...
Whenever he came down to utah he would always stay at the Sleep INN across from the Provo Tabernacle, It no longer is there due to construction on the new Provo Temple.
Every time he came to Utah he would have to go to Village Inn for milkshakes! One time Meredeth and I were in his car near the time they just finished building the round-a-bout, we were going to get milkshakes with him and when we got to the round-a-bout he kept going around and around. We had to help him get out of it.
Grandpa and his cane... look out, steer clear.
Whenever he would call us, he without fail would ask "What little monkey do I got this time??" and would continue by naming everyone but you. Also he would ask "What's for dinner" "potatoes?"
Up in Wyoming we always would take him to the Irma Restaurant. I also remember him flirting with waitresses at other places. One time when his eye sight was going he just had to ask me if the waitress was cute.
My Grandpa was not LDS but i'm sure he was intune with the Spirit, some how he just knew some things, Like when my sisters were pregnant and mom would ask what he thought they were having and he was always right.
Through out my life I was his Mile Marker. Grandpa Beardlsey promised a long time ago he was going to make it to my High School Graduation. It's interesting he picked mine because my cousin near my age didn't graduate and the next youngest is graduating this year.
Any way Grandpa was not doing well physically and we thought he would not make it down, I had finally accepted that he wouldn't make it but somehow he did. My sisters gave me two Leis and with there bright colors he was able to barely see me with his poor eye sight.
I accepted the fact that he would not make it to my wedding considering he was in bad condition. He had lost his eyesight and on top of that he already couldnt hear. But somehow I happened to find the one and get married and he made it to the wedding!
Near the end of my pregnancy the weekend before, my Mom visited him and he told her that he was not going to make it to february and the doctors were saying something different like march. Well Lydia made her appearance into the world at the right time. My mom told grandpa she was born and he just said "hmm" Like he already knew and then he passed that Saturday.
My mom likes to say that while they passed each other in the realms he "Scared the shit out of her" as a reason to the Meconium staining at her birth.
My grandpa is finally reunited with the love of his life Ruby Eileen.
One day I'll get to meet her and see the kind of person my grandpa is when she is with him.
He was an old fart and really ornery but we loved him anyway.